Pervertables and Where to Get Them

Pervertables are arguably some of my favourite toys. They can be inexpensive, easy to find, and bring new and interesting sensations. For those that are unaware what pervertables are, they're any everyday object that can be turned into a toy. The most common examples...

Sex Work as a Service

While laying in bed the other night I had a rather interesting question pop into my head, can you do sex work as a service to a D-type? As someone who is a service type person who's also been doing sex work for about five years now this is something that is very...

Book Review: The Collar by kame bat

On the docket for this review is The Collar: The Planner for Those Who Serve With Intent by kame bat.

This book isn’t a “traditional” book per say; it’s a mix of an educational text, a work book, a journal, and a planner.


While we all want relationships to last forever, hence why consideration collars are often used before permanent collars, sometimes they don't. Sometimes the s-type needs their collar to be taken off. Usually when you hear stories of an uncollaring or end of a dynamic...

Grace Training

Something that Devyn and I have introduced recently to our dynamic is grace training. We've added this to our dynamic to help adjust certain vocal habits and certain mannerisms that we both felt weren't beneficial to how I wish to be perceived. Grace Training refers...

Book Review: The Life Changing Magic of Tidying up

Something that I hold to be a very important part of my education in the kink community, dynamics, and my own person journey is reading. In fact that's one of the easiest ways for me to obtain information as I can do so at my own pace. It also makes topics much more...

An Exciting New Journey

It's been quite a while since I last wrote! I haven't been lazy though, just busy. I think some life updates are in order. The biggest update is that I have relocated to Dallas to live with Devyn! After he had dropped me back off in Wichita I decided that I wanted to...

How I met Devyn

The story of how we met doesn’t start with our meeting but with how Devyn and my leather dad and mom, Sir Cadillac (or Caddy) and slave shy, met. Caddy and Shy had gone to Oklahoma Leather Fest and attended a cigar service class, that just so happened to be taught by Devyn. They talked to Devyn and asked if he would be up to teaching a class in Kansas once they got the dungeon up and running (this was before the Ravns Nest had officially opened). Devyn of course said he would totally be down to come up and teach a class.

Beauty, Beasts, and Codependency

Growing up I always saw the collection of Beauty and the Beast books on my mothers shelf, watched all the different movie versions we could find, and even had a little plastic doll of Belle. I remember my favourite version was the Japanese version one of my moms old boyfriends had given her.

Household Management How To

So it’s all easy and fun talking about how household management is a service and why, but how do you actually do it? What actually makes up household management?