Grace Training

Something that Devyn and I have introduced recently to our dynamic is grace training. We’ve added this to our dynamic to help adjust certain vocal habits and certain mannerisms that we both felt weren’t beneficial to how I wish to be perceived. Grace...

Book Review: The Life Changing Magic of Tidying up

Something that I hold to be a very important part of my education in the kink community, dynamics, and my own person journey is reading. In fact that’s one of the easiest ways for me to obtain information as I can do so at my own pace. It also makes topics much...

An Exciting New Journey

It’s been quite a while since I last wrote! I haven’t been lazy though, just busy. I think some life updates are in order. The biggest update is that I have relocated to Dallas to live with Devyn! After he had dropped me back off in Wichita I decided that...

How I met Devyn

The story of how we met doesn’t start with our meeting but with how Devyn and my leather dad and mom, Sir Cadillac (or Caddy) and slave shy, met. Caddy and Shy had gone to Oklahoma Leather Fest and attended a cigar service class, that just so happened to be...

Beauty, Beasts, and Codependency

Growing up I always saw the collection of Beauty and the Beast books on my mothers shelf, watched all the different movie versions we could find, and even had a little plastic doll of Belle. I remember my favourite version was the Japanese version one of my moms old...