The Magic Of Service

Grace Training

Jul 7, 2020 | training

Something that Devyn and I have introduced recently to our dynamic is grace training. We’ve added this to our dynamic to help adjust certain vocal habits and certain mannerisms that we both felt weren’t beneficial to how I wish to be perceived. Grace...

Book Review: The Life Changing Magic of Tidying up

Jun 22, 2020 | Book Review

Something that I hold to be a very important part of my education in the kink community, dynamics, and my own person journey is reading. In fact that’s one of the easiest ways for me to obtain information as I can do so at my own pace. It also makes topics much...

An Exciting New Journey

Jun 9, 2020 | Journal

It’s been quite a while since I last wrote! I haven’t been lazy though, just busy. I think some life updates are in order. The biggest update is that I have relocated to Dallas to live with Devyn! After he had dropped me back off in Wichita I decided that...

How I met Devyn

May 26, 2020 | Journal

The story of how we met doesn’t start with our meeting but with how Devyn and my leather dad and mom, Sir Cadillac (or Caddy) and slave shy, met. Caddy and Shy had gone to Oklahoma Leather Fest and attended a cigar service class, that just so happened to be...

Beauty, Beasts, and Codependency

May 22, 2020 | Journal

Growing up I always saw the collection of Beauty and the Beast books on my mothers shelf, watched all the different movie versions we could find, and even had a little plastic doll of Belle. I remember my favourite version was the Japanese version one of my moms old...

Household Management How To

May 19, 2020 | How To, Service

So it’s all easy and fun talking about how household management is a service and why, but how do you actually do it? What actually makes up household management? I generally separate household management into three subsections: -Housekeeping -Maintenance and...

Service Submissives and Household Management

May 17, 2020 | Journal

Recently Devyn and I have been talking around a lot of hypotheticals with a household manual. The idea around it being that the manual houses information regarding protocols, household tasks, budgets, and the like. His would include what he calls his “book of...

Punching Cigars and Myself

May 16, 2020 | Journal

The past couple weeks I spent my time in Dallas with Devyn. While most of the time was spent indoors, with the occasional trip for groceries, just before I was carted back up to Wichita we were able to make a special trip out to Cigars International brick and mortar...